What Matters More Length or Girth?

Length or GirthThere’s a rule in chemistry, the higher the surface area, the higher the rate of chemical reaction.

Let’s face it; men are obsessed with penis size in the same way that women are obsessed with their breasts.  What is ironic is that women don’t care about penis size in the same way as men care about women’s breasts.  To most women, it’s not the tool but the ability of the man in bed.  The sword is only as effective as the one who wields it, so to speak.  Male obsession in penis size has resulted to an enlargement industry spanning creams, devices and pills.

At one point in their lives, men would have thought about how they would measure up with the other guys.  At least a few would have taken out a ruler to measure their erect member.

According to studies, the average penis is not the 8 inchers you see in porn flicks.  The average size is actually lower than that, 5.5 to 6.4 inches in length and 4.7 to 5.2 inches in girth.  A woman’s vagina however is only 4 inches long on the average.  Do the math!

The length of the penis does not have anything to do much with pleasure during sex.  The girth however, matters.

Let’s talk about women’s little penis first, more popularly known as the clitoris.  The clitoris which is found on top of the outer folds of the labia is very sensitive and is the primary source of female sexual pleasure.  However, there is more to the clitoris than just a small extension of sensitive skin.  It is actually “V” in shape with its legs extending down to pubic bone.  Its sensitive nerve endings also trail along both sides of the outer vagina or the vestibular bulbs.  With only 1/8 to 3/8 inch in size, the clitoris packs double the nerve endings of the penis.

A penis with wider girth can easily stimulate the outer vaginal opening.  A penis with a wide girth also creates more tension in the labia which tugs at the hood that covers the clitoris more.  The more movement in the clitoris causes more stimulation.  So the bigger surface area that a penis with a wide girth is able to occupy means that it is in contact with more nerve endings, resulting to a more pleasurable intercourse.

But most women still swear that it’s not the tool but how you use it.  Indeed, there are countless guys who pump away with rabid intensity during intercourse that ends up frustratingly unexciting for women.  The clitoris, the outer fold of the labia and the first one-third length of the vagina are the most sensitive parts of the vagina.  A penis that is 5 inches or 4 inches long is more than enough to give a woman the most pleasurable sexual experience.

The average man has about 4 inches in girth.  There are techniques that can be used to make the penis seem wider.  The first is by using a circular motion during thrusting.  This allows the penile shaft to come in contact more with the labia.  An angular thrust with the aim of tugging the lower part of the labia can also give a woman more exciting pleasure.  When doing this, the contact in the lower part of the vaginal opening tugs at the clitoris more, producing extra pressure and tension.

But of course, it all ends with the preference of the woman.  Some women prefer large penises, while the others small.  Remember, in any relationship, size is not all that matters.  What matters most is the swordsman.  In the end, it still ends with the guy.  The sword is secondary to the skill, love and lust of the guy who wields the sword.